Marry your best friend. I do not say that lightly. Really, truly find the strongest, happiest friendship in the person you fall in love with. Someone who speaks highly of you. Someone you can laugh with. The kind of laughs that make your belly ache, and your nose snort. The embarrassing, earnest, healing kind of laughs. Wit is important. Life is too short not to love someone who lets you be a fool with them. Make sure they are somebody who lets you cry, too. Despair will come. Find someone that you want to be there with you through those times. Most importantly, marry the one that makes passion, love, and madness combine and course through you. A love that will never dilute - even when the waters get deep, and dark.
― N’tima (via kevinidentity)
(Source: mariaarroyo)
I’m sorry that I haven’t been blogging lately.
Truth is, life has been pretty good lately. I’m smiling more and I’m much happier now. And since that my blog has always been(except the first time I got tumblr. I reblogged everything and anything I saw on my dash. It’s embarrassing to say the least) a pretty sad and depressing type of blog, I decided that I should stay away from my blog just a little but to see how it turns out. And boy, it was tough at first. I was worried for each and everyone of you who followed me. I felt guilty that I’ve finally found my pursuit of happiness while some of you are still trying to find the light in life. Hey guys, I really do and truly care about each and everyone of you. I’ll be checking up on some of you later so expect a few messages in your inbox from me, aight?
I would also want to add that I may be changing the type of my blog. Instead of really sad things, I shall reblog and blog some beautiful and inspiring posts that I can manage to find but without changing the style. I’ll stay true to myself.
And, it really does get better. You just have to be patient. Take it from me, the girl who used to have suicidal thoughts 24/7. I won’t say that I’ve completely changed. I won’t lie, I do sometimes have those thoughts. But it’s okay. Trust me, it will be okay. If takes time but it will be okay. It will. Be okay.
“That word again. Happy. It’s a curse. The pursuit of happiness makes us deeply unhappy. It’s a trap.”
